Birthdays

I live to plan and throw birthday parties for my children. I'll admit it----I'm a birthday planner addict. Little girl J, who will be 3, February 10th has decided that she doesn't want a party. What's a mom to do? I had begun planning months ago. I guess it will be just cake with the family. My mother thinks this is great. I am already having withdrawal---but, alas, R's birthday is just one month later. Don't dissappoint me, little guy!